He is a very good looking man, and is considered at his work to be a BIG gigantic flirt (so I’ve heard).Īnd the women he has talked on the phone at night in the past work with him on his team. I really didn’t react, I just said, oh, I am sure you did. Just yesterday he told me, you should have seen how I was dressed today, I was But I think it’s more of his insecurities to be noticed. He compliments me and tells me how much he loves me and how beautiful I am, blah, blah, blah.īut he is SO EASILY distracted to the point even watching TV. Looking at the vehicle or whatever, but I know better, and I just laugh (at least to him anyway).īut here’s the deal, it used to be that he would notice only me and not all the external distractions around him. My recent approach has been not a scolding one, but almost laughing. He tries to play it off even though I call him out on the carpet for it. So here we go, I’m back to asking-is it appropriate for him to be gawking at other women, especially with me? What do you think? I think it’s disrespectful and it hurts my feelings. Said what she said that it wasn’t appropriate, I don’t feel HE thinks that it’s inappropriate. He did stop calling these women, and I found out that he was confiding with them about me, which really upset me. He thinks as long as he is not pursuing them sexually that everything else is okay. In this relationship because he has NO boundaries. And she told me in confidence, that I will never have peace or harmony She told him it was very inappropriate to notice and make comments about other woman. So we went to counseling, he only went twice, once by himself and once together. These women are single and even though it’s just I thought and still do think this was totally inappropriate. In addition, he was calling women that he worked with from his cell phone at night and having long conversations with them. I’ve had more occasions ruined, like my latest birthday out for dinner, a fun night at a concert to my favorite artist and lots Throughout our relationship, he was constantly observing other women and then would make comments about them. I found her number on his phone and I called her-let’s just say I had the guts to end it.īut ever since then, I have had a HUGE issue with trust. So he told her a lie and said he was moving because of a job to a different city even, but he still had contact with her once he moved here. Someone there (before he moved) and didn’t have the guts to end it with her (so he says). Because when he moved up here I found out that he was seeing We don’t live together but have been exclusive to each other the entire time he has lived here anyway. My boyfriend of almost 5 years moved to where I live about 4 years ago. My feelings towards this are based on a background of a not so good start to a relationship. I hate to go into all the details, but I will try to sum it up and lay the groundwork for my question. and I need more advice from you and others. My boyfriend’s involvement with other women bothers me My boyfriend's involvement with other women bothers me.As such if you are the sort of person who willingly strikes up philosophical conversations with strangers you might be more interested than I was. What this all boils down to is that "Conversations with Other Women" is not for me as I found it hard to become interested in what seemed a lot of pretentious talk which didn't ring true. But did I find their characters interesting enough to really become engaged with their discussions or consider the deeper context of what their conversations are about? Nope I found them impossible to warm to. That one element makes it a little interesting but only a minor distraction to what to me often feels forced and fake, although in all fairness when the woman says "don't mind him, he's just trying to get laid" it made me smile.īut despite finding "Conversations with Other Women" a slog I have to admit that Aaron Eckhart and Helena Bonham Carter deliver their parts well, bringing layers to their characters which makes it a little less monotonous. Now in fairness this one unlike other movies has this interesting element of these two thirty some things might have met sometime in the past or have some connection which we need to work out. It is an issue I have had with other movies which focus mainly on the discussions between two people because frankly I find it pretentious and boring. Now you might be asking why "Conversations with Other Women" didn't work for me and it is because in my walk of life I don't mix in the circles which speak in the way the two central characters do through out the movie.
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